Radiate Love

Most all of the personal development I've come across says,

"First you must love yourself." 

When you love someone, you take the time to get to know them. You listen to their needs, even when they're unspoken. Time spent together is enjoyed to the fullest, and you would do anything to help them succeed.

(Love breeds happy, which in turn is success) 

If you can't take the time & patience to learn & love yourself, how do you expect to have it in you to pour out into another? Take the mental image of trying to pour from an empty vase, there's nothing to give.

When you open yourself up to the possibility of love you are setting yourself up for success. If you are only focusing on the negatives, you are essentially attracting more negatives. Instead, focus on love & acceptance & the positives,  allowing all the good the universe has to offer to come your way.
An understanding that what you send out will in return come back to you. You could call it the #boomerang effect ;)
There's a pretty good Ted Talk about #oxytocin and what it boils down to, the Dr. prescribes 8 hugs a day.

Go hug some people, see how it makes your heart feel!